Fall Fanfare

Once again, Fall lurks around the next corner, bringing about back-to-school excitement and fall activities to communities all over the country.  As I enter a local store this past week, two young children dressed in clothing with logos to support their group beg with outstretched hands holding empty cups for money for their team.  Sadly, they are one of many who will appear in the next few months.

Don’t get me wrong – I like supporting young people and their causes, and often do.   I applaud their dedication and contributions to society.   I believe in teaching young folks to get involved, be positive, and to give back.  However, I do not support begging.  

I gladly support kids who do something to earn money for their groups.  I would gladly hire kids to pick up sticks in my yard, and I would pay them far more than the going rate to help them with their cause.  I love kids with the energy and initiative to hold bake sales to earn money, and I often pull into a car wash and simply give a donation as my car doesn’t usually need washed.  I’m glad to help.  There’s a host of other things kids can also do to earn money for their teams and schools such as walking dogs, and organizing a walk or run or swim for dollars that people could pledge, along with more traditional selling of popcorn and magazines.

Parents and coaches need to rethink what they are teaching their kids. They are sending out the wrong message.  Begging should not be an option, even for a good cause. 

 *I realize this blog may stir and fire up some parents who automatically switch to a defensive mode anytime someone mentions children and change.  With my comments, I’ve also suggested some other options which I think should be considered as improved alternatives to current practices.  I do not condone begging.